Monthly Archives: June 2015

How to Make Your Dating Worth It

How to Make Your Dating Worth It

Investment Money Box
Image © TheDatingAgencyGroup

I few years back I read in the Metro newspaper that men invest in their looks and wardrobe when there is potential for romance, and that in the UK Scottish men are the highest spenders.

I asked my then boyfriend, who happened to be Scottish, if he thought this was true.

“Are you kidding me? Of course it’s true, I bought two shirts and a pair of jeans just before our first date.” By the way, just as most men, he hated shopping.

I was impressed and charmed and got all fuzzy from the inside. For me it meant that he had taken our date seriously.

1. You Want Someone Who Invests in Dating as Much as You Do

The other day a girlfriend told me about her first date with a guy who had seemed to have high potential when they corresponded. They met for coffee, she offered to pay her share, he took the money and then they started to split the change awkwardly afterwards, counting the pennies. He was generous enough to give her a bigger share of the change back!

Oh dear, it was just a cup of coffee. He surely wouldn’t have gone bankrupt if he had just offered to pay. Needless to say, the date didn’t go very well.

Coffee for two
Image © TheDatingAgencyGroup

We ladies, have to spend as well, we spend on hair, make up, outfits, beautician, you name it; we spruce up seriously when we go out on a date. In the US dinner dates are a norm, even if they are first dates. Of course they don’t come cheap and there is an eternal debate whether the guy should foot the bill or whether the daters should go Dutch.

I guess we all have our own thoughts about this, although sometimes even the offer to pay from the guy’s part or the willingness to share the cost from the woman’s part can go a long way in warming each other’s hearts.

Dates are an expense we should all consider. The bottom line is that we should be prepared to budget for them, to do our dating in style.

2. But Should We Pay for The Service?

The best things in life are free…goes the Mastercard advert. But are they?

Free dating sites are very popular nowadays, thus attracting the serious daters along with the time wasters, or even worse people who are already in a relationship. The easy sign up and the semi anonymity are to blame.

When it’s all too easy, no wonder trust issues can appear right from the beginning. Maybe he’s a serial dater. Maybe she goes out partying every night. Who could tell? We know so little about the person in the beginning and the fact that they hopped onto the dating band wagon for a free ride, might not be their biggest plus. Even if we’re on it too!

3. How Are Paying Dating Sites Better?

When the world is inundated with free dating sites and dating apps, isn’t it a comforting thought that your date, just as yourself, has paid to meet you? Niche dating sites are on the rise and they are proof of higher expectations, for quality dates between people who are more compatible and are more committed to dating and to relationships.

Dating profile writing and dating image photography are also on the rise. This shows an expectation of higher quality profiles, with better photos and more engaging self-summaries becoming the norm. After all, we are perceived and chosen, if not on the basis of our photos and what we write about ourselves.

In the world of dating quality should always override quantity. We should think of ourselves as too valuable to leave things to chance, to sift through all the time wasters, date after date after date…

Quality Dating Moments
Image © TheDatingAgencyGroup

Paid dating related services, like dating web sites, matchmakers, dating coaches, dating photographers and profile writers can help us put our best foot forward and get a fair chance at meeting our much more valuable partner for life.

Make your dating worth it


Article by Laura Gub
Laura Gub
More Info & Articles

Online & Mobile Dating with – FREE To JOIN & BROWSE Profiles

Redhead Days Pub Crawl

Redhead Days Pub Crawl

Red Head Pub Crawl
Image Copyright © RedHeadDays

The annual Redhead Days Pub Crawl in Breda, Netherlands will once again take place on a Saturday evening. From approximately 8pm until 1am. This year, 2015 it will be on the 5th September.

Due to Dutch legislation participates must be over eighteen years of age.

Further details on Facebook Here>>


Ginger Singles Online Dating
Dating just for Ginger Singles

New UK Dating Show – When Do You Get Off

New UK Dating Show – When Do You Get Off

When do you get off

UK’s ITVBe has commissioned Keshet International, an independent TV production company based in London, to produce a brand new TV dating show “When Do You Get Off”. Already in pre-production the series will see singles dating potential suitors at their workplace.

“Most people spend approximately a third of their lives at work and a person’s chosen career can say a lot about them”

The series will see a lonely-heart date four potential suitors at their workplace. After two days of dating on the job, the singleton will decide which one they would like to meet when they get off work.

If you are interested in casting for this new series you can request an application form by contacting Keshet on: 0203 771 0055 email: ukcasting @


Singles Rally Online Dating
UK Online Dating with

UK Dating & Relationship Conference

UK Dating & Relationship Conference

UK Dating & Relationship Conference 2015

Saturday 11th July 2015 9am-6pm London. Hear from seven top UK dating and relationship experts. Including Laura Gub founder of Brand You Simply Your Dating Coach, on Why It Is Important To Stand Out From The Crowd.

DoubleTree by Hilton Hotel London – Victoria 2 Bridge Place, Victoria, London SW1V 1QA. Two minute walk from Victoria Station. Tickets £24.97 GBP, Telephone: 01652 641 351. Website:

Dating in London with London City

Who Should You Be on Your First Date

Who Should You Be on Your First Date

Dating behind a mask

Dating begins with the presentation of “who we are.” Are you showing up as the “real you?” or are you presenting a different version of yourself in the hopes of impressing another?

First dates provide an opportunity to create an impression by putting one’s best foot forward. It’s tempting terrain for pretending to be something we’re not, but doing so can eventually hurt both parties.

In pretending to be something we are not, we fool the other into buying into a product that’s clearly not for sale. We lure them into what we think they want, or who we’d like to be, but are not. There’s no future relationship possible from this context, only games, falseness and failure.

The extremes to which some people feel compelled to amend their personalities and attitudes to get love, is alarming. When the need to be wanted overtakes the need to be who we are, failure will follow. It’s imperative to honor ourselves in order to love another.

Continue reading